Selasa, 02 September 2008

Are Baby Gifts and Guys Mutually Exclusive?

by: Brian F Connors

Ever had a situation in which a gift was needed to be sent by you to someone for an occasion but you were absolutely stymied about what to give? I'm confident that this circumstance has occurred during the celebration for a new baby. This is especially true for the menfolk out there that generally have no inkling regarding the correct etiquette to guide their baby gifts choices.

Guys, is there a type of gift that would hide your helpless ineptitude and actually show a sense of grace or, dare I say, savoir-faire? Absolutely, my male comrades! The answer is Baby Gift Baskets. They are simple to find on the internet and to dispatch to anyone, anywhere across the continental USA. It would be a bada bing - bada boom exercise that's a cinch to do.

These gift baskets contain all of the cute and cuddly stuff that you won't have to shop for. Teething toys. bibs, booties, ducky and teddy bear items plus more can be magically brought together and purchased in one fell swoop. The baby gifts can also be customized for boy or girl. The basket itself is another gift that can add to the décor of the baby's room. Starting to see the light here, boys?

Here's the plan, Stan. Go to Google or Yahoo or whatever and type in keywords or phrases that relate to the type of item to be purchased. How about "newborn baby gifts delivery" or "baby gifts" or ...Wait...I just had another startling cosmic revelation! Try "baby gift baskets" and press the Search button. Shaaazam! That should get you on your way to shopping for and choosing the right gift basket at the right price.

You would then give instructions to the Baby Gift Basket online store of whom to send it to and where to ship the merchandise and by when. Then make a secure credit card payment that's within your financial wherewithal and the process is complete. No mall shopping anxiety. No carefully wrapping and packaging the gift. No impatiently standing in line at the Post Office to mail. Need I say more?

You may have to sincerely ask yourself the question "What part of this don't I understand?" Read this article again if that's what it takes for you to realize how this advice has made you more sophisticated and worldly within the realm of Guydom. Take heed not to get all giggly once you grasp the concept because remember...You're a guy! Just pass me some pretzels and the remote and we'll call it even, OK?

The Science Behind Male Menopause

by: Nelson Howe

Once a man is in his mid-forties, he will eventually start to be concerned on the next stage of life, which is death. As a result, his apprehension of being next among those he knew who have passed away will eventually lead to several symptoms of which is often times referred to as “mid-life crisis”. This particular phase in a man's life is called male menopause or medically known as “andropause”.

Loss of energy and fluctuation of man’s virility level are just some of the most notable indicator of andropause. This is because of the alteration of the production of male sex hormones. Generally, this problem occurs to a man during the age of 45 up to 55.

Actually, andropause are two distinct stages that occur among males and are most of the time considered as one. As a matter of fact, mid-life crisis and andropause are associated with each other because mid-life crisis occurs to men between the ages of 35-45 years, which is before the andropause phase.

On the other hand, andropause may occur early depending on the person will respond to his mid-life crisis; and may also be delayed if that particular person maintains a healthy and active lifestyle.

Another symptom of andropause is the irregular loss of vitality. Meaning that particular person may be more irritable, significant loss of sex drives and the most notable is depression. Though most people consider these occurrences as normally caused by aging. In the field of medicine, andropause had become a disorder rather than a normal phase in a man’s life. That is why medical science is constantly finding ways to solve this problem.

The predicament that usually occurs in a man’s life called andropause is not inherited nor is it natural to all men. That is because, unlike menopause – a predicament that occurs on women on the same of the same age — andropause can be avoided and treated.

Stress is also one of the major factors that trigger andropause. Psychological stress and physical stress can lead to too much alcohol intake in the body and cigarette consumption. They can greatly aggravate the symptoms of andropause.

Usually, the result of malnutrition or nutritional deficiency of the man’s body can lead to andropause. Symptoms such as nervousness, memory loss and low sex drive could be attributed to normal aging or shortage of chromium.

However, not all men can experience the effects of andropause. Such crisis is considered by some as an insult to a male body. That is why, having a healthy lifestyle is the main weapon in order to avoid or minimize the effects of male menopause.

10 Dating Tips for Divorced Men part 1

by: Cameron Teone


What do you do when you just went through a bitter divorce and now you find yourself on the single scene once again??

Where do you start?

How do you meet women again?

Do you know how to properly approach beautiful women? Sometimes, it appears that the times have drastically changed since you were last single. How do you begin anew?

In my line of work, I get all sorts of clients and inevitably some of the men are divorced guys looking to work the single scenes, except they have no idea where to begin. It's been a quite a while since they hit the bar scene with the fellas and approached girls and now, what perhaps used to be second nature, feels a bit foreign.

It seems as if the times have changed so much. Perhaps they never great at attracting women and they feel like they lucked out with that one girl they married, and now she is gone. Oh, what will they do now??

Now, I have to be honest with you. I have never been divorced. Then again, that may be because I have never been married either. My job is to help guys from all walks of life meet women, build attraction, and have a successful dating life. My job is to help men attract women. Whether you plan to get married again or not is none of my business.

If you have been out of the scene for a while, you need to become acclimated into the single scene once again.

Now, I am going to lay out a specific 10 Step program to enable you to effectively join the single scene again and start attracting more women.

***STEP 1- Attitude readjustment***

It all starts with your ATTITUDE. This is the first step!

You have to make a decision. I can give you all sorts of dating advice but it won't do you any good until you decide that you want to get this part of your life handled.

So you have a choice: You can either sit there, bitch and complain about how the times have changed, about how it's been so long since you have done the single thing, and what a shame it is, OR you can make a decision NOW to attract a great woman (women) in your life. If you are reading through this article, perhaps you have already made this decision!

This is a time to celebrate your freedom! Chances are if you were married for 15 or 20 years, you were institutionalized, sort of like the character of "Brooks" from the classic movie "The Shawshank Redemption." If you've seen the movie, you know exactly what I am talking about. "Brooks" from Shawshank wanted to choose staying in a sadistic and brutal prison rather than celebrate a freedom that came with uncertainty.

When you were married, things made sense even if the circumstances were atrocious. Now, things suddenly do not make sense and this is a scary feeling.

You must realize that this is a temporary state, and it will pass. You're not the first man to become divorced, nor are you the last.

In fact 60% of marriages end up in a divorce in some parts of the country so you're in pretty good company.

Adjust your attitude. Start to realize that you have just opened the door to a world of new possibilities. Celebrate your new found freedom and the door that has just been opened to new possibilities.

***STEP 2- Burn your old clothes. Time for a makeover***

Look, I know it's possible that you were already a sharp dresser. Anything is possible!! We live in a country that lets Geraldo on TV! In my experience, however, most men have no clue how to dress properly and when it comes to married men, forget about it.

In my experience, most married men I meet, have settled into a comfort zone where the sweatshirt over plain pants look has become their calling card. If you are back on the single scene, it'd help if you started to once again take care of your appearance. It's time to a grab a few new outfits, a pair of new shoes, and do some grooming.

I understand how basic this sounds but you may be astounded as to how many guys I come across who fail their basic grooming. Just make sure your hair (don't care if it's completely shaved or in a pompadour,) your beard/goatee, looks like it's been cared for.

Good Breath is on top of this list. The problem is most people including many of your buddies won't tell you that you have bad breath. They'll just run away. Our first step is to make certain that we are taking care of the basics.

Change the way you dress, start grooming, and look presentable. Look like you're in demand and that you know it!

***STEP 3- Start Approaching***

Make an effort to approach more women and grow your social circle. You have to start socializing more with women as well as more men. Most married couples hang out with other married couples, talk about babies, fight over bills, and watch reruns of Law & Order.

It's needless to say that regardless of the conversational topics, this particular social circle isn't going to introduce you to as many single women as you'd like to meet. Hence, it'd be very wise to start creating new social circles that include single people, or at the very least, people in relationships who are still in touch with the single world.

You must realize that this takes some effort on your part. You ought to start initiating conversations with more women everywhere you go. Most people immediately think of going to bars and clubs. Depending on your age, taste, likes and dislikes, you may not be a bar/club guy. That's certainly understandable.

You can still make an effort to approach women during your daily activities which could range from supermarket and coffee-shops to various classes, clubs, and the gym.

You also may want to give online personals a try. I'd only advise you to utilize the personals as a supplemental means to meet women, not as your only means to meet new women.

***STEP 4- Start exercising again***

I am being a bit presumptuous here. If you're doing it already, that's fantastic. Most married guys start growing horizontally. Exercise will make you FEEL better physically, emotionally, and mentally. It will also boost your self-confidence which is of the utmost importance! Plus if you join a gym, you will meet new people, females as well as males. (Not to mention that it will improve your physical appearance.)

This is not a ploy to pick up women. You'll feel better because of it!

***STEP 5- Establishing New networks***

Look to create a network of single friends who really enjoy going out and meeting women. Nothing would probably encourage you more to actually enjoy going out and meeting women more than surrounding yourself with a few guys who like to have a good time and socialize.

Hanging with introverts who want to sit home and maybe play a card game or two is not going to help you meet more women. If you are going to hang with guys like that, then make sure you balance it with hanging with a few animals who want to hit the outdoor life.

OK, we are half way there. Part 2 of this article covers the next 5 steps that will enable you to attract desirable women. Please continue to the next section.

Wishing you the best,

Cameron Teone

Copyright (c) 2007 Cameron Teone

How To French Kiss A Woman

by: Joshua Wong

It is an experience that most people would remember: their first French kiss. Some people would say it was a great experience while some would prefer not to mention it. But, we all know that French kissing is a very delicate and sensual experience.

Research has said that women's lips are one of their erogenous zone, so it's important for men to leave a lasting impression with women. And if you French kiss her like no one else, you'll most likely to kiss something else of her next.

The skill of kissing does not simply consist of knowing how to move your tongue inside a woman's mouth without hitting her tonsils. It involves the entire mouth - the lips, tongue, teeth, and the rest of the body.

Here are some basics:

1) Give the lady a hand.

Position your hands on her body while kissing her. Hold her face firmly but gently as you slip your tongue inside her mouth and suck on her lips. This will definitely make her toes curl.

Also, try to gently pull her hair back from the back or slightly squeezing the part of her body that is located right under her breasts (her ribs). This could make for some very enticing kissing sessions.

2) Pay attention to the way she kiss.

People often give out what they would like to receive, so pay attention to the way she kisses you. That could be an indication of the way she wants you to kiss her. Does she bite on your lips or try to gently suck all the saliva off your tongue? Reciprocate by doing the same. She will love you for it.

3) Tell her what you like.

Does your loved one kiss you like she's trying to suck the life out of your body? Does she kiss too fast, too slow, or without using her tongue? Try not to tell her what you don't like, but rather what you do like. That way you won't hurt her feelings.

4) Control her mouth.

The next time you kiss her, hold her face with your hands tenderly and kiss her the way you would like to be kissed. If she is not turn on by this, then your sensual tongue will surely do the trick.

5) Make it long-lasting.

Women loved long, slow, juicy, and enticing kisses. Your partner will definitely feel your passion through one of those prolonged tender kissing moments. Just like in the movies, kiss her hard and deep.

Now that you've discovered the basics of kissing, let's move on to some ways to make her think and want to kiss you all the time, hopefully. Here are some simple tips that can make you the ultimate Casanova:

1) Suck on her tongue.

Turn your mouth into a soft suctioning device on her tongue. Suck on her tongue mimicking the way you would suck on a woman's clitoris.

2) Lick her lips with your tongue.

Lick on her upper and lower lips in a slow, ticklish fashion. Once you have lubricated them adequately with your saliva, move your lips around her lips and let your saliva wet both of your mouths.

3) Suck on her lips.

If licking her lips quickly makes her wanting more, then begin sucking on her lips. Do it one at a time as no one wants to feel as though they've stuck their mouth inside a vacuum. Be careful when you suck on her lips; don't get too rough or she will get turn off and pushes you off. You would not want that to happen, do you?

4) Move beyond her mouth.

Don't be shy. You would not want to confine yourself to kissing just her lips. There's a whole face and body to explore. Go ahead and French kiss her chin, her neck and her breasts? Kiss her eyes, behind her ears or her wrists. Be bold and try something different. You'd be surprised at the results that a little creativity can produced.

If you've never been complimented on your kissing techniques before, now you'll know the basics of being a professional kisser. A quick way to tell if she enjoyed the experience: when you kiss her and then pull back, her eyes stay closed for just a moment longer. This usually means that she thoroughly enjoyed your kiss and there's a good chance that you could take it a step further. Just remember that everything starts with a kiss.

Erectile Dysfunction: Top 8 Dangerous Myths That Men Have About Erectile Dysfunctions That Is Killing Their Sexual Health

by: John Nilsen

Myth # 1: "Men with Erectile dysfunctions and other sexual dysfunctions make men have no desire whatsoever in sex." This is not true, just like women, men's sexual desire hormone levels decrease with age. This can result in that men can start having sexual problems as early as the age 30 because of lowering of testosterone levels. For most men however, usually happens around the age of 60. Another main reason is simply that men are no longer able to hold an erection. Even though they can't hold an erection, these men are still able to ejaculate and have orgasm. Most men with a male sexual dysfunction are still capable of producing sperm and procreate. In most cases, these conditions are caused by medically treatable condition. (See the table below for some of the more common causes of erectile dysfunctions.)

Psychological Causes of Sexual Dysfunction: (note: causes are more common in younger men.)

Anger towards a partner;

Anxiety;

Depression;

Discord or boredom with a partner

Fear of pregnancy, dependence on another person, or losing control;

Feeling of detachment from sexual activities or one's partner, fear of intimacy;

Guilt;

Inhibitions or ignorance about sexual behavior;

Performance anxiety (worrying about performance during intercourse); and

Previous traumatic sexual experiences (for example, rape, incest, sexual abuse, or previous sexual dysfunction).

Physical Causes of Sexual Dysfunction:

atherosclerosis, diabetes or a blood clot) or surgery on the blood vessels can cause erectile dysfunction

abnormalities in the veins of the penis

Neurological(nerve) damage caused by prostate surgery, spinal disease, diabetes, multiple sclerosis, peripheral nerve disorders, stroke, alcohol and drugs.

hormonal disturbances

Low energy caused by: illness, fatigue and/or stress

Drugs: antihypertensives, antidepressants, some sedatives, cimetidine, digoxin, lithium and antipsychotics

This is just one of many myths that men have about erectily dysfunctions that is really affecting their sexual health. Research has shown that our actual thoughts affect our overall health. For the other 7 myths that affect our sexual health as well as to find out about 5 cent herbal viagra and 9 other 100% totally natural cures. Go to the website in the resource box.

How To Flirt With Women...Effectively

by: Gabe Aragon

Men often times have difficulties in engaging a conversation with a woman regarding the subject of introducing the sexual element on a date without the fear of being rejected. Some men have no idea at all how to flirt with women and be successful flirting with them. Men do not understand that, that is because you just really do not talk about it. What really does the trick is the old time saying, "Actions speak louder than words".

You will have to introduce the sexual element of the game very subtly in your interactions with your date and slowly escalating it as the night progress. By doing this, she will not interpret it in a threatening way and she will relax. Eventually, your date will let her guard down because she feels safe that you are not forcing anything. Balance your naughtiness with your trustworthiness.

Projecting your male sexuality and showing that you are confident and comfortable with it would send out a strong message to her without you having to talk about it. Women sense every detail of you wanting her, believe me, they do. They are very receptive to all kinds of emotions so be sure to send out the right emotions otherwise, you will receive the wrong reply.

Generally, women are more receptive with what you do, your body language would be the major factor on your success for the night so you won't have to go home frustrated like most of the nights before. Women will pick up what you do more than what you say to them. Let your voice and your gestures tell her that she is sexy, beautiful, you think she is hot, you want her, and you want to make love with her, without you actually having to say anything.

Keep everything light, playful and pleasurably naughty. Then while you are flirting and sending out all these messages to her, and she reciprocates with her body language, flirts back and plays along - you will know that the game is on. You can now take your moves farther without being rejected. Knowing how to flirt with women, you will never have to go home frustrated anymore.

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Distinctive Men's Suits Begin With The Right Choice Of Fabrics

by: Vince Nitti

Fashion trends have certainly changed in men's clothing since our fathers' generation. While the dapper dresser of the past always had his place, and men have always "dressed for success" to one degree or another, there is far a more aware and sophisticated approach to clothing today than ever.

As evidenced by the explosion of fashion magazines and TV programs aimed at the subject of men's wear and even makeovers, men today are much more aware of how they're dressed than they were in the past, when fashion wasn't much more than an afterthought. Many men are paying more attention to their wardrobes than their cars or traditional male hobbies in an attempt to achieve the respect the business world bestows on a well-dressed man. The best way to achieve this look, of course, is with a "killer" new suit.

While style and cut is important, the deeper idea to be aware of is that the proper fabric is the most important component of the perfect suit. To decide which fabric is right for you, you'll need to know how each will look, feel, and wear. The following descriptions of fabrics commonly used in men's suits will point you in the right direction.

Non-wools

Linen: Probably not the best choice for a new suit. Linen is lightweight and has a look that will set you apart from everyone else, but it stains and wrinkles easily. It can create a suit with a nice line, but it won't stay that way all day at the office.

Polyester: The only reason to consider a polyester suit is if it's blended with wool in order to reduce the cost. Polyester is made from chemicals, not natural fibers, and suits made from it were in style about as long as disco in the 1970s. What you'll save on a blended suit isn't worth the look.

Microfiber: Fine for a Halloween costume but not much else. Stay away from any suit made from microfiber.

Teflon: The same comments that apply to microfiber also apply to Teflon. Unless you plan to fry an egg on your sleeve, stay away from it.

Wools

Tweed: Now we're into the fabric of choice for men's suits, but don't get too excited yet - tweed is not the first choice. While it will keep you warm in very cold weather, the fabric is too heavy to flow on your body. You may very well see tweed suits on seniors; it has a very old-fashioned look. But it's best to avoid tweed altogether, as it will tend to make you look heavier.

Flannel: Suits made from flannel are also pretty heavy, as they are made from corded wool. Although flannel is very durable and available in charcoal gray with pinstripes, it's better suited for pajamas than suits.

Tropical: Because this wool crepe is very lightweight, it's extremely difficult to keep from wrinkling. This is not the fabric of choice for your new suit.

Worsted: You probably figured out by now that we saved the best for last. Gabardines and mid-weight corded wools are Worsted fabrics that are durable and can be worn all year long. Make sure your next suit is made from Worsted wool.